You can repress it and try desperately not to think about your same sex desires, but you cannot cure it or fix it. There is no cure. Homosexuality is a part of you, a part that you should be proud of. Being gay or lesbian is not a sin, it's a natural state of being attracted to the same sex. Some people will tell you that if you accept Jesus into your heart that you can be cured of your homosexuality. This is not true. Denying it is not curing it. Some people say that you can pray away the gay. This is also not true.
There is nothing wrong with being gay and don't let anyone ever tell you that there is. People who think homosexuality is wrong are usually very religious people who believe in god and jesus. They will tell you that the bible says homosexuality is an abomination and that you will go to hell, but this is a lie and so is most of what is written the bible. There is no hell, you will not go there however gay you are!
You may come across videos of ex-gays who have decided to believe in Jesus Christ and have rejected their gayness. They claim to be cured like being gay is some sort of disease, but you can be sure that deep down inside they are struggling with their natural sexual urges and sometimes living a life which ultimately does not fulfill them. Their heads have been filled with quotes from the bible and fear that they will come under the wrath of god, fear that they will be punished if they carry on living a gay lifestyle. But there is no god so they will not be punished. They are just punishing themselves by denying who they really are and how they really feel.
If anyone tells you they know how to cure homosexuality they are lying. They will try to brainwash you into thinking that if you accept christ as your savior you will be saved from the homosexual way of life. This is not possible, since christ is not the son of god, and if he did exist as the illegitimate son of Mary, he has been dead for thousands of years and cannot hear your prayers or watch you in the shower when you masturbate.
If you are struggling being gay because you believe in all this god stuff, just take a minute to think about how you really feel and what makes you happy. It's your happiness that is important at the end of the day, not your parents and not the clergy or religious people who judge and disapprove because they have been brainwashed. It's really ok to be gay, there are many gay and lesbian support groups that you can turn to and many out and proud LGBT who would be glad to get to know you and be your friend. Don't deny who you are, be who you are. Surround yourself with people who know love, acceptance and tolerance, and who won't judge you or condemn you.
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